Guidelines For Filipina Dating
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Filipina dating scene has evolved much through time, though it’s oddly derived from the country’s culture and traditions, it should be pretty much similar to those in line with females of all races. Here are a few tips and guide on how to date a Filipina.
Pre-date Preparations
It’s very impractical for you to show up on your first date unshaven or looking dirty and smelly. Filipinas are brought up to be hygienic. In fact showering or bathing daily is a common practice among Filipinos. If you aim to impress her, the first thing you’d want to do before the date is to take a good, long bath. It doesn’t cost you anything to look good, smell nice and take a bath. Of course, you have to make other hygiene considerations as well. Make a personal check before the date such as:
-Is there dirt under your nails?
-Have you gargled with mouthwash?
-Is your hair presentable? Have you recently had a haircut? Have you combed/styled it?
-Are your shoes neat and clean?
-Are your clothes clean and well-pressed?
-Are you well-shaven?
Remember that first impressions last. Nobody is expected to look immaculate every single day. But looking or smelling unclean will give your date the impression that you have poor personal hygiene all the time. This will prevent her from wanting to see you again and finding out what a great person you really are inside.
The Actual Date
Be there early from the usual time you’ve agreed on. “Filipino time” doesn’t apply in the dating scene; a Filipina might think that she is being stood up if you do not get there on time. A general courtesy that male should arrive before the female. Just don’t get there overly early- it may pressure her into speeding up her pre-date preparations and make her frazzled.
Be a gentleman. Hold the door for her, let her walk through the door first, pull her chair, and be polite to her alongside to other people around her. When it comes to Filipina dating in particular, a gentleman is always favored. Filipina like to feel special by treating her like a lady she’ll think that you’re a fantastic person.
Don’t be stingy with sincere compliments. If you think her hair looks great, tell her so. The best compliments are those that are genuinely meant, and specific. Women loves compliments but too much will make her think that you’re trying to flirt with her. You must never tell white lies, for instance telling her that she’s very slim when in fact she is quite chubby. Women have powerful instincts and she’ll surely see through them.
Learn how to listen. Refrain from hogging the conversational floor or from talking about yourself all night. While you would like to impress her, it will have the opposite effect if she will end up thinking that you are disgustingly self-centered. Instead, let her do a lot of the talking, and listen- really listen.
Don’t just act as if you’re listening. Ask questions when you’re curious or interested about certain things she said, which you will be anyway, if you truly pay attention.
It’s appropriate for a gentleman to pay for the first date. It is customary for the Filipino dating scene to pay for a date. However if she insists to pay for it instead, don’t resist let her do it. If the two of you enter a commitment, however, she will no longer expect you to keep picking up the tab. Don’t worry.
After the Date
Some women prefer not kissing on first date. Yet at the end of the date, offer a small kiss on the cheek – offer nothing else, expect nothing back. It totally depends on your dates body language and action if she wants to do more than that.
It’s not necessary to call after your first date, don’t be too pressured on this thing. Your actions at this point should be base on how the date went well. If you don’t click then there’s no pressure for you to get a second date with him. However if you’re interested for a second date go give her a call for your second date.
The Filipina dating scene has evolved, along with the rest of the world. Your success in it will depend largely on your chemistry as a couple. Don’t get discouraged if your first try doesn’t turn out so well. Consider it as valuable practice for when the right one comes along.
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